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Divorce in San Francisco

Whether you're just thinking about it or you've already been served, Abby helps you get stable, see the whole picture, and get through it without losing yourself in the process.

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What to know about divorce in California

No-fault

Nobody has to prove wrongdoing. The usual ground is irreconcilable differences.

Community property

What spouses acquire during the marriage is generally divided equally.

Six-month minimum

A divorce can't become final until at least six months after the other spouse is served or appears.

Residency

One spouse must have lived in California for six months, and in the county for three, before filing.

How Abby approaches a divorce

  1. 1

    Stabilize

    Where everyone lives, how bills get paid, and the kids' schedule. Temporary orders, if they're needed, so nothing is left hanging.

  2. 2

    Gather

    The required financial disclosures, plus whatever else the picture needs: tracing separate property, valuing a home, a business or equity.

  3. 3

    Resolve

    A negotiated or mediated settlement when that serves you. Trial when the other side won't be reasonable.

Common questions

I've just been served. What do I do?

In California you generally have 30 days to file a response. Don't wait until the end of that window. Call so we can talk through your options and get you stable first.

Can we settle without going to court?

Often, yes. Many divorces are resolved through negotiation or mediation, and the agreement is submitted to the court for approval. Abby works toward that first.

What if I think my spouse is hiding assets?

Both spouses must make full financial disclosures. When something doesn't add up, there are tools to find out why. That's exactly what the gathering phase is for.

How long will it take, and what will it cost?

It depends on how much you agree on and how complex your finances are. Here's an honest look at what drives both.